Summary

Here's a quick summary of the key points to keep in mind when making conversation:

  • Focus on learning about the other person: what interesting experiences have they had in their past? What are they passionate about and why? ...
  • Start by introducing yourself and asking a question that prompts a story
  • Ask follow-up questions to go deep on a topic
  • Ask questions that elicit stories or reflections ("What was it like to ...?")
  • Answer questions by sharing stories or reflections
  • Highlight commonalities between you and your conversation partner