Summary
Here's a quick summary of the key points to keep in mind when making conversation:
- Focus on learning about the other person: what interesting experiences have they had in their past? What are they passionate about and why? ...
- Start by introducing yourself and asking a question that prompts a story
- Ask follow-up questions to go deep on a topic
- Ask questions that elicit stories or reflections ("What was it like to ...?")
- Answer questions by sharing stories or reflections
- Highlight commonalities between you and your conversation partner